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  • edited April 18 Posts: 15,941
    We went to a wedding recently and my son wore a suit. Of course he had to strike a pose: we did the gunbarrel sequence with a toy gun. I'm not biased at all: the result was spectacular.
  • CommanderRossCommanderRoss The bottom of a pitch lake in Eastern Trinidad, place called La Brea
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    Ludovico wrote: »
    We went to a wedding recently and my son wore a suit. Of course he had to strike a pose: we did the gunbarrel sequence with a toy gun. I'm not based at all: the result was spectacular.

    No doubt it was epic. My son looks absolutely dashing in a suit, at 6. Probably every other age as well ;-)
  • rock223rock223 Isenburg
    edited April 27 Posts: 17
    Since becoming a parent myself, I've learned so much about navigating the challenges of each stage. One thing I've come across is the risk of products, like baby formula, which can lead to serious health issues. But I have a lawyer here who always guides me and helps me handle such situations. Honestly, I believe every parent should have legal support that can protect them.
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    My new lullaby:

    I was about to say I sing it these days to get my boy to sleep, but truly I sing it these nights.
  • CommanderRossCommanderRoss The bottom of a pitch lake in Eastern Trinidad, place called La Brea
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    hahaha you're not the only one. When he was smaller I'd also sing YOLT.
  • edited May 22 Posts: 12,821
    I can’t imagine how difficult it is to be a parent. It’s definitely not for me, for many reasons. Riding that fine line between not too strict and not too lenient I imagine is very hard, though observing parents with their children in public these days, it definitely seems to lean heavily towards leniency. I get a general sense that parents nowadays want to be their kids’ friend more than their parent, and are too scared, uninterested, or motivated to discipline them, even when it’ll ultimately be for their betterment in time.

    Personally, I got to have a wonderful mother that I still talk with all the time; we have a few differences, but she’s a great person and I recognize how lucky I was and am to have her. My father was unfortunately very nasty and toxic, and he hasn’t been in the picture for a very long time now. As a man, I completely lack the example to be a good father in the first place, but frankly I’m not even interested in having kids and happily leave it to those who are more prepared and wanting to. I wish all the parents out there the best, as the challenges are plentiful and constant, but as my mother kindly assured me, it can all be worth it.
  • CommanderRossCommanderRoss The bottom of a pitch lake in Eastern Trinidad, place called La Brea
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    FoxRox wrote: »
    I can’t imagine how difficult it is to be a parent. It’s definitely not for me, for many reasons. Riding that fine line between not too strict and not too lenient I imagine is very hard, though observing parents with their children in public these days, it definitely seems to lean heavily towards leniency. I get a general sense that parents nowadays want to be their kids’ friend more than their parent, and are too scared, uninterested, or motivated to discipline them, even when it’ll ultimately be for their betterment in time.

    Personally, I got to have a wonderful mother that I still talk with all the time; we have a few differences, but she’s a great person and I recognize how lucky I was and am to have her. My father was unfortunately very nasty and toxic, and he hasn’t been in the picture for a very long time now. As a man, I completely lack the example to be a good father in the first place, but frankly I’m not even interested in having kids and happily leave it to those who are more prepared and wanting to. I wish all the parents out there the best, as the challenges are plentiful and constant, but as my mother kindly assured me, it can all be worth it.

    Sad to hear you've had such a dad, especially if that's been of influence on thinking if you're a good parent yourself. My father is a very friendly and thoughtful man, whom never ever helped me with anything, as he was too thoughtful, and never understood life himself. But as a father myself, I decided I'd be a guide for my son. I explain the things he doesn't do right, and why. I'll honestly answer any questions he has. If I don't know, I don't know. But I'm not his friend. We're not equal, not until he's 18. And I've told him that as well. We don't do punishment, and up until now we didn't need to. Usually he knows it when he went off the rails and cries when he wants to apologise. A big hug then works wonders. SO, all in ll, I don't find it very difficult. The only difficult part is that you need to give him attention, and that can be challanging after a day's work. Especially as he can keep on talking... and talking...and.. But the pride you get in return for seeing him succeed is better than any experience in my life.
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    hahaha you're not the only one. When he was smaller I'd also sing YOLT.

    Oh I need to try this tomorrow night!
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    Caterina Murino is pregnant at 47: https://www.hellomagazine.com/healthandbeauty/mother-and-baby/842629/daniel-craig-bond-girl-caterina-murino-pregnant-at-47/?viewas=amp

    She's still a gorgeous woman. I can't believe how determined she must be to become pregnant at her age.
  • LucknFateLucknFate 007 In New York
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    Good for her, and what a hopefully lucky baby.
  • DarthDimiDarthDimi Behind you!Moderator
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    A baby is a wonderful gift. I'm very happy for Caterina! I hope her pregnancy goes well for her. All I can attest to is that the older you get, the harder it is to recover from a sleepless night.
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    DarthDimi wrote: »
    A baby is a wonderful gift. I'm very happy for Caterina! I hope her pregnancy goes well for her. All I can attest to is that the older you get, the harder it is to recover from a sleepless night.

    Maybe the one reason we only have one child.
  • Last_Rat_StandingLast_Rat_Standing Long Neck Ice Cold Beer Never Broke My Heart
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    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    A baby is a wonderful gift. I'm very happy for Caterina! I hope her pregnancy goes well for her. All I can attest to is that the older you get, the harder it is to recover from a sleepless night.

    Maybe the one reason we only have one child.

    I have three. None that fly. But who's counting?
  • DarthDimiDarthDimi Behind you!Moderator
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    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    A baby is a wonderful gift. I'm very happy for Caterina! I hope her pregnancy goes well for her. All I can attest to is that the older you get, the harder it is to recover from a sleepless night.

    Maybe the one reason we only have one child.

    I have three. None that fly. But who's counting?

    Good one. :-D

    I love my son, now 2 years and 8 months old, but he can be a handful. My wife and I are often exhausted after a day of trying to keep the little lad occupied.
  • Last_Rat_StandingLast_Rat_Standing Long Neck Ice Cold Beer Never Broke My Heart
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    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    A baby is a wonderful gift. I'm very happy for Caterina! I hope her pregnancy goes well for her. All I can attest to is that the older you get, the harder it is to recover from a sleepless night.

    Maybe the one reason we only have one child.

    I have three. None that fly. But who's counting?

    Good one. :-D

    I love my son, now 2 years and 8 months old, but he can be a handful. My wife and I are often exhausted after a day of trying to keep the little lad occupied.

    Yeah my daughter is 3. It gets easier. Just start them with the films early and that'll keep then occupied. My sons are older so they help a lot as well as taking in the occasional Bond film with me when we have time.
  • CommanderRossCommanderRoss The bottom of a pitch lake in Eastern Trinidad, place called La Brea
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    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    A baby is a wonderful gift. I'm very happy for Caterina! I hope her pregnancy goes well for her. All I can attest to is that the older you get, the harder it is to recover from a sleepless night.

    Maybe the one reason we only have one child.

    I have three. None that fly. But who's counting?

    Good one. :-D

    I love my son, now 2 years and 8 months old, but he can be a handful. My wife and I are often exhausted after a day of trying to keep the little lad occupied.

    Yeah my daughter is 3. It gets easier. Just start them with the films early and that'll keep then occupied. My sons are older so they help a lot as well as taking in the occasional Bond film with me when we have time.

    Mine is about to turn 7, tomorrow, in fact. But he's quite sensitive, so Bond is a bit too much as of yet. Allthough he's developing very fast lately.

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    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.
  • DarthDimiDarthDimi Behind you!Moderator
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    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    Was it Roger's eye brow? :-P
  • DragonpolDragonpol https://thebondologistblog.blogspot.com
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    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    It was probably the voodoo sacrifice scene in the PTS of LALD. That would be pretty scary for a youngster. Just as well he didn't see the later voodoo scene then!
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    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    Was it Roger's eye brow? :-P

    It was the PTS. Which understandably is quite scary. I think the title sequence is also particularly macabre.
  • DarthDimiDarthDimi Behind you!Moderator
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    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    Was it Roger's eye brow? :-P

    It was the PTS. Which understandably is quite scary. I think the title sequence is also particularly macabre.

    I wonder what the most child-friendly Bond film would be, also in terms of sufficiently simple plot. My guess would be MR, if Jaws and the python don't mess it up.
  • DragonpolDragonpol https://thebondologistblog.blogspot.com
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    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    Was it Roger's eye brow? :-P

    It was the PTS. Which understandably is quite scary. I think the title sequence is also particularly macabre.

    I wonder what the most child-friendly Bond film would be, also in terms of sufficiently simple plot. My guess would be MR, if Jaws and the python don't mess it up.

    I'd say TMWTGG might be a contender too. Bond only kills one person in it (Scaramanga himself) and it's not terribly violent or scary.
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    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    Was it Roger's eye brow? :-P

    It was the PTS. Which understandably is quite scary. I think the title sequence is also particularly macabre.

    I wonder what the most child-friendly Bond film would be, also in terms of sufficiently simple plot. My guess would be MR, if Jaws and the python don't mess it up.

    I remember being very scared of Jaws in MR when I was a child. I didn't know I was watching a Bond film, only saw the bit in Rio when I was going through the channels, I thought it was a vampire movie, so I stopped. I must have been six or seven. My bet is probably GF and TB are the kids friendlest of Bond movies.
  • Last_Rat_StandingLast_Rat_Standing Long Neck Ice Cold Beer Never Broke My Heart
    edited July 10 Posts: 4,757
    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    My younger son was scared of the Samedi laugh at the end on the train.

    Honestly my sons started Bond at 3. I remember one of them wanting to watch the one with all of the scuba divers.

    LTK is the only one still currently off limits until they're older
  • CommanderRossCommanderRoss The bottom of a pitch lake in Eastern Trinidad, place called La Brea
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    Dragonpol wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    Was it Roger's eye brow? :-P

    It was the PTS. Which understandably is quite scary. I think the title sequence is also particularly macabre.

    I wonder what the most child-friendly Bond film would be, also in terms of sufficiently simple plot. My guess would be MR, if Jaws and the python don't mess it up.

    I'd say TMWTGG might be a contender too. Bond only kills one person in it (Scaramanga himself) and it's not terribly violent or scary.

    Not sure. I find the fun-house quite scary. ANd I'm supposed to be a grown-up!
  • DragonpolDragonpol https://thebondologistblog.blogspot.com
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    Dragonpol wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    Was it Roger's eye brow? :-P

    It was the PTS. Which understandably is quite scary. I think the title sequence is also particularly macabre.

    I wonder what the most child-friendly Bond film would be, also in terms of sufficiently simple plot. My guess would be MR, if Jaws and the python don't mess it up.

    I'd say TMWTGG might be a contender too. Bond only kills one person in it (Scaramanga himself) and it's not terribly violent or scary.

    Not sure. I find the fun-house quite scary. ANd I'm supposed to be a grown-up!

    Yes, it has that 70s Guy Hamilton bizarre and offbeat feel to it. Kind of creepy and sleazy and wonderfully odd. I myself was thinking of Nick Nack in that devil's mask and trident! Quite spooky to come across late at night!
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    Dragonpol wrote: »
    Dragonpol wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Ludovico wrote: »
    My son watched CR, QOS, YOLT and OHMSS with me. At his request, I might add. Then suddenly, after a few minutes of LALD, he said James Bond was too scary for him.

    Was it Roger's eye brow? :-P

    It was the PTS. Which understandably is quite scary. I think the title sequence is also particularly macabre.

    I wonder what the most child-friendly Bond film would be, also in terms of sufficiently simple plot. My guess would be MR, if Jaws and the python don't mess it up.

    I'd say TMWTGG might be a contender too. Bond only kills one person in it (Scaramanga himself) and it's not terribly violent or scary.

    Not sure. I find the fun-house quite scary. ANd I'm supposed to be a grown-up!

    Yes, it has that 70s Guy Hamilton bizarre and offbeat feel to it. Kind of creepy and sleazy and wonderfully odd. I myself was thinking of Nick Nack in that devil's mask and trident! Quite spooky to come across late at night!

    And let's not forget, it has Christopher Lee.

    But children are strange: my son had no problem watching the first three Pirates of the Caribbean movies, even with the zombies and sea mutants, but got scared when I was watching Clue, which is a zany comedy. So it's hard to know what's suitable.
  • thedovethedove hiding in the Greek underworld
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    I started my son with TMWTGG as his first Bond, then we moved to DAF, followed by GF. I then showed him SF which he proceeded to watch 4 times in one day. LOL! Recently we have started a Bond-A-thon and he found FYEO and OP boring and asked if he had to watch the whole movie. In Eyes he got past the skiing and the thrilling chase, OP he didn't make it past the Backgammon scene.
  • MaxCasinoMaxCasino United States
    edited July 15 Posts: 5,114
    While I'm not a dad (yet, hopefully one day), I do have a similar pop culture reference with my nephew. I was going to surprise him with Mario and Luigi action figures. When my mom had my car and went to visit him, he found my surprise toys for him. He asked my mom (his grandma) "For me?" My mom said yes. After opening and playing with them a bit, he went up to my mom and said: "Mario (holding and showing Mario), Luigi" (holding and showing her Luigi). It made me smile. He's just over 2, and he already knows who Mario and Luigi are. I teased my brother and sister-in-law that they are truly raising him right, if he knows who the Mario Bros are. I hope to get him some more iconic characters in toy form for him soon. As tough as he and his parents are (they are generally jocks), he might be seeing a James Bond movie soon.
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